Friday, September 12, 2014
Practice Friendzoning
This doesn't always work, but its one trick that many well versed
players know how to do just right. It is an advanced dating technique
for men. Some girls just want you to listen to them and will text you
without any sex or a relationship involved. This is the woman version of
friendzoning. You can make this work for you if you know how to do it
as a ploy to females. If you can blow them off in the right kind of way
by ignoring them and or talking down to them in a way that they think
you are not interested in them while still keeping that original
attraction that they have towards you then that is how you can keep a
girl in the "friendzone" and she will go eventually go crazy for you,
because woman love and want things that they can't have. They get bored
with what is easy. Never make yourself too easy for a girl. In those
cases, they will either friendzone you, or just walk all over you and
ignore you.
Perspective from a break up
You can always gain perspective from a break up. The thing to remember
about a break up is that your emotions are the main part of you that
will take a hit. Particularly if you get dumped. I am the kind of guy
who will stick around far into bullshit and drama. Much farther than I
should. At 30, I am making a conscious effort to not do this. It's not
worth it, particularly with young, emotionally minded females. As a
rule, the younger the female is that you're dating, the more potential
drama and bullshit you will have to go through. Some women are just all
about drama. They put themselves in precarious situations, or situations
that they don't like, and then they complain about them. Women expect
men, and everyone else to adjust to their bitchy attitudes. They make up
for it with sex, or friendship gifts, or whatever. Try to avoid dating
these types of girls. You will pick up on their behavior through subtle
hints. If you get a bitch vibe or a spoiled drama queen (they often
think they're a "diva" not a drama queen) vibe, then run the other way
if you don't need the sex. These are the type of girls who are experts
at finding ways to fuck you over and dump you. If you make any little
mistake they will let you know about it. Generally, these types of
bitches are also the types of sluts to give it up easily and often.
The perspective you can learn from a break up is in hindsight, but you can use it as foresight if you are smart. It can teach you how to act around different types of females, and also which females you should completely avoid. You should probably avoid dating the type of girl I described above at all costs, because it will cost you emotionally in the end. But you can learn from it and grow if you pay attention to how you feel emotionally. There's nothing wrong with loving someone and feeling hurt when they don't love you back. But you should learn that some people are not worthy to be loved. This should teach you that you should hold back your emotions as far as trusting someone and entering into a committed relationship with that person until you are sure that they are worthy of it. A slutty girl is a slutty girl. Chances are she's slutty because she likes sex, she was molested at a young age, or any other variation of those reasons. It's a common misconception that women don't like sex. Indeed they do, they just aren't as non-discriminative as men are when choosing a sex partner. It's in their nature to be this way because they have to select a proper, fit male to ensure the human race isn't populated with idiots. On the one hand you can say this is cruel, and I would agree with that in another story, on the other hand this is simply nature, which is why you should work on yourself to make yourself as presentable to a desirable female as possible. This is Darwinism, but it is not extreme Darwinism. It is more natural. But again, this is another story for another time.
Slutty girls like sex. Most girls like sex. But many girls are actually proper, and normal, in that they just want to marry a man and be with one person. Nowadays women are becoming more and more promiscuous for whatever reason, that's another story. So you have more sluts. It's fairly easy to meet and date a slut. Just look for sex. But if you look for other qualities of character first and you wait for sex, you have a much better chance of meeting a decent girl who will love and support you and not fuck you over. So in a sense, you can't go looking for a prize in the dumpster. Ponder on that.
Dating a slutty girl, or a girl who gave it up to you easily is in most cases a big mistake. I can't say you won't meet your mate doing a friends with benefits situation. It can happen, and it has happened. It's just less likely to succeed. Look for exactly what you're looking for and don't expect to get anything else. If you do, then you do. That's life. But in general, you will get what you were looking for.
Here is a great riddle that women don't understand; they blame us for cheating, atcing like assholes, and only wanting sex. BUT, but they only date these kinds of men. See, deep down, most girls have an ideology that men are supposed to be princes and come sweep them off their feet. And if they don't have that ideology, they at least have an idea that men should be great providers, or powerful in some way. This is a paradox that is unfortunate for men. I believe if women didn't believe these things I would have been married a long time ago. This is one of the major reasons that I disliked women in my past. Each female seemed to expect something out of me that I didn't have. Some great skill, or power. And on top of that to be a good bread winner. More and more in this society money is what women are looking for in a man. They equate money with success, the ability to raise children well, and whatever else they fantasize about with regards to a man's money.
No, men shouldn't act like douchebags or cheat, but yet for some reason so many women choose these type of men. Often these type of men are like this because they are compensating for something, or they just want sex. And women haven't figured this out yet. Whatever the case, a man is a man, and he is what he is, rich or poor, he is who he is. A woman should love a man for what he is, not for what he potentially will be, or not for how much money he makes, and what job he does. It is sad that women judge a man by his occupation and not by his character and his ability to love. A woman should be a responder to love, not a responder to money, education, gentility, charisma, confidence or whatever thing. Initially those things may attract a women, but if there isn't love behind those aspects then your relationship will not work out. Love should always be the goal. Yes, children need money, but they much more need love. They would do well with a strong, confident father, but they would do better with a father who truly loved them. The world is short of love. Some say love doesn't pay the bills, I argue wholeheartedly that it does. Money may buy you material happiness and time to enjoy those things, but it won't buy you love. Love is a wholly unique.
The perspective you can learn from a break up is in hindsight, but you can use it as foresight if you are smart. It can teach you how to act around different types of females, and also which females you should completely avoid. You should probably avoid dating the type of girl I described above at all costs, because it will cost you emotionally in the end. But you can learn from it and grow if you pay attention to how you feel emotionally. There's nothing wrong with loving someone and feeling hurt when they don't love you back. But you should learn that some people are not worthy to be loved. This should teach you that you should hold back your emotions as far as trusting someone and entering into a committed relationship with that person until you are sure that they are worthy of it. A slutty girl is a slutty girl. Chances are she's slutty because she likes sex, she was molested at a young age, or any other variation of those reasons. It's a common misconception that women don't like sex. Indeed they do, they just aren't as non-discriminative as men are when choosing a sex partner. It's in their nature to be this way because they have to select a proper, fit male to ensure the human race isn't populated with idiots. On the one hand you can say this is cruel, and I would agree with that in another story, on the other hand this is simply nature, which is why you should work on yourself to make yourself as presentable to a desirable female as possible. This is Darwinism, but it is not extreme Darwinism. It is more natural. But again, this is another story for another time.
Slutty girls like sex. Most girls like sex. But many girls are actually proper, and normal, in that they just want to marry a man and be with one person. Nowadays women are becoming more and more promiscuous for whatever reason, that's another story. So you have more sluts. It's fairly easy to meet and date a slut. Just look for sex. But if you look for other qualities of character first and you wait for sex, you have a much better chance of meeting a decent girl who will love and support you and not fuck you over. So in a sense, you can't go looking for a prize in the dumpster. Ponder on that.
Dating a slutty girl, or a girl who gave it up to you easily is in most cases a big mistake. I can't say you won't meet your mate doing a friends with benefits situation. It can happen, and it has happened. It's just less likely to succeed. Look for exactly what you're looking for and don't expect to get anything else. If you do, then you do. That's life. But in general, you will get what you were looking for.
Here is a great riddle that women don't understand; they blame us for cheating, atcing like assholes, and only wanting sex. BUT, but they only date these kinds of men. See, deep down, most girls have an ideology that men are supposed to be princes and come sweep them off their feet. And if they don't have that ideology, they at least have an idea that men should be great providers, or powerful in some way. This is a paradox that is unfortunate for men. I believe if women didn't believe these things I would have been married a long time ago. This is one of the major reasons that I disliked women in my past. Each female seemed to expect something out of me that I didn't have. Some great skill, or power. And on top of that to be a good bread winner. More and more in this society money is what women are looking for in a man. They equate money with success, the ability to raise children well, and whatever else they fantasize about with regards to a man's money.
No, men shouldn't act like douchebags or cheat, but yet for some reason so many women choose these type of men. Often these type of men are like this because they are compensating for something, or they just want sex. And women haven't figured this out yet. Whatever the case, a man is a man, and he is what he is, rich or poor, he is who he is. A woman should love a man for what he is, not for what he potentially will be, or not for how much money he makes, and what job he does. It is sad that women judge a man by his occupation and not by his character and his ability to love. A woman should be a responder to love, not a responder to money, education, gentility, charisma, confidence or whatever thing. Initially those things may attract a women, but if there isn't love behind those aspects then your relationship will not work out. Love should always be the goal. Yes, children need money, but they much more need love. They would do well with a strong, confident father, but they would do better with a father who truly loved them. The world is short of love. Some say love doesn't pay the bills, I argue wholeheartedly that it does. Money may buy you material happiness and time to enjoy those things, but it won't buy you love. Love is a wholly unique.
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